Seven social habits that instantly make you more interesting

I’ve always been fascinated by people who seem effortlessly magnetic.

I used to get jealous of them, but not any more. They’re a source of fascination.

Often, it’s the quiet ones who somehow draw everyone into their orbit without trying.

After years of watching these naturally compelling people, I’ve noticed they share certain unusual habits.

Here’s what I’ve learned about becoming genuinely interesting to be around:

1. Ask questions that push people to think differently

While every other Tom, Dick and Harry asks ‘How was your weekend?’, interesting people ask questions that catch you off guard.

How about this one:

‘What’s something you believed five years ago that you don’t believe now?’

You become associated with deeper, more meaningful exchanges.

2. Admit your unpopular opinions without apologising.

Most people either hide their contrarian views or apologise before sharing them. They can’t stand the idea of not fitting in.