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Judge less, observe more.

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(Why this changes everything)

When was the last time you labelled something without understanding it?

Judged something as one thing when you didn’t know what it meant?

I know I’ve done it.

Given that we can never fully understand anything, in theory, we do it all the time.

I label; we all label. It is a human need to label things because it allows us to communicate vague concepts and it helps us make decisions.

Understood. Labelling has its uses.

A lot of us, however, do work that requires us to see things from different perspectives — to make new connections; to be creative.

Labelling puts things into boxes and kills creativity.

The ability to express ourselves fluidly and with colour comes from the recognition that things have multiple meanings — to see that there is ‘no spoon’ — no label.

If I want to stand out and have better ideas, I know I need to go against my default mode — which is to judge quickly.

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Alex Mathers
Alex Mathers

Written by Alex Mathers

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