If you feel like no one gives a crap about you…
(read this to change this):
2 min readSep 10, 2024
- Your needing people to care about you is pushing people away.
- Others want to feel cared for.
- Others are in their own heads; their own struggles.
- You must acknowledge this, and make the first move.
- This takes courage and forgetting yourself.
- What has helped me is realising there is no ‘self’ to protect anyway.
- Your idea of ‘self’ is in your mind.
- People thinking they have any kind of ‘identity’ makes them need others to confirm it.
- We’re a walking gaseous mass of stories and beliefs.
- You do not have an identity outside your thoughts. You are free.
- To receive love is counterintuitive. You must first give it.
- This does not mean giving to be liked. This means giving without expectation.
- You must put your attention outwards, no matter how much you are hurting.
- When you do that, your self-consciousness will go away.
- Wake others and you won’t worry about getting the attention you thought you deserved.
