Most men are suffering deeply, completely invisible to women because they were denied these lessons from absent men.
All the tips here are informed by years of awkward dates, some painful breakups, lots of mutual enjoyment with women, and hours of study.
I’ll be the first to admit I was a nerd at this stuff when I was young.
Yes, this stuff is learned and not natural for most men.
Here are 15 ways you lose her attraction for you:
Being too nice.
She knows when you’re faking nice to manipulate her into getting something, brother.
Forget what mama told you, and treat her as you would your cool little sister.
Being above the superficial.
Don’t skimp on caring for your appearance, physical fitness, and the tiny details.
Become Chad. She will be looking at your dirty fingernails, even if you’re oblivious to it.
Taking her too seriously.
She’s a human. Not a ‘princess,’ and certainly not above you. You want to meet her as an equal on the other end of a wide spectrum.