17 uncommon actions that make a good long-term impression on people

Years of awkwardly stumbling through life showed me that respect isn’t built through grand gestures.

They’re earned through small, consistent behaviours most people overlook.

Here’s what I learned actually sticks in people’s minds:

1. Remembering small details they mentioned weeks ago and bringing them up later.
2. Looking people in the eye at least 70% of the time when they’re speaking instead of scanning the room (or your phone).
3. Saying their name or a term of endearment naturally or playfully in conversation without overdoing it.
4. Admitting when you’re wrong without making excuses or deflecting blame.
5. Occasionally physically touching where appropriate, which builds connection.
6. Keeping your word on small things like returning a borrowed book, not just the important ones.
7. Speaking more slowly, waiting before replying and being comfortable with pauses.
8. Asking follow-up questions that show you were listening and that come from genuine interest, not bullshit.
9. Staying calm when the situation suggests you should be stressed and frustrated.
10. Giving credit to others…