12 weird tricks that make others want to follow your lead

Life has shown me that the ability to lead others is a skill to be learned…

And an essential one at that.

Whether you’re a boss, a parent, a romantic partner, or a brand-building writer, you want to know how to lead and inspire well.

Here are some little tricks to help you do this more impactfully:

1. Talk less, and listen more.

The more you talk, the less value is attached to your words.

Scarce words are valuable words.

Listen to what people say.

They are more willing to follow your lead when they sense you understand them.

2. Visualise yourself as a present and compassionate leader.

How you see yourself affects your behaviour.

Visualise yourself as the king of the jungle who cares.

Walk like a leader. Move like one. See yourself as one, and others will fall into your frame.

3. Take your time.

Rushers lose respect.

We rush because we’re not settled in ourselves; people sense this. Slow down your movements and your talking.